Yes, wanting to eat at the best joints and wearing designer labels is common but if she seems overtly concerned that the smallest of accessory you are wearing might spoil your status and is adamant that she cannot be seen at the “wrong” (any place known for its budgeted offerings) places, chances are high that your girl is just too materialistic—typical signs of a serial gold digger.She might be living in a very basic accommodation, might belong to a humble household but only wears the best of brands and demands to be taken to premium, select locations only.
Rather than directly confronting your girl, try to identify the following traits that are associated typically with gold digging women: You might have told her about your salary but she wants to know more, constantly scraping for more information about your family status, parental savings and inherited riches and even your savings.I’ve seen really ‘plain jane’ boring types who have nothing to offer married to incredibly wealthy guys. Everyone knows – lawyer, investment banker, doctor. I offer the following analysis of your predicament. S., what you suggest is a simple trade: you bring your looks to the party and I bring my money. But here’s the rub, your looks will fade and my money will likely continue into perpetuity…I’ve seen drop dead gorgeous girls in singles bars in the east village. Firstly, I’m not wasting your time, I qualify as a guy who fits your bill; that is I make more than 0K per year. Your offer, from the prospective of a guy like me, is plain and simple a crappy business deal. in fact, it is very likely that my income increases but it is an absolute certainty that you won’t be getting any more beautiful!This is a definite sign of a lady using her boyfriends for maintaining a lifestyle she cannot afford.She repeatedly asks you to repay her bills, from mobile refills to her room rent—this is a definite sign that your presence in her life doesn't matter, your bank balance does.