I’m the white girl that dates only Asian guys with absolutely no apology…
and, depending on who you are, I know what you’re thinking when I say that. How can you know what you like if you’ve never dated different races?
It’s frustrating to feel constantly challenged on something that shouldn’t matter to anyone but me.
People aren’t going to ask me why I date men, so why should they ask me why I date ?
It’s easy to gauge this reality on the website Candle for Love (CFL), devoted to helping US Americans bring their loved ones over from China.
CFL is like a tidal wave of American men in love with Chinese women, with only a rare American woman/Chinese husband surfacing to break the monotony. Several years ago, when my husband enrolled in a New Oriental class in Shanghai for GRE prep, the instructor warned all of the Chinese men: “If you’re going to study abroad, prepare for four lonely years.” The underlying message was, don’t expect to fall in love — but be pleasantly surprised if it happens.
The answer is the same to both questions: because that’s what I’m attracted to. On the other hand, when Asian men hear about my preference, one of two things happens. I get reprimanded for some purely sexual fetish and how I’m a White Female so I’m supposed to like White guys too, and how can I dislike my White counterpart?
We’ve had our differences, like any parent and child will, but I love him and he loves me. Actually, I’ve had no problems being White…quite the contrary, admittedly. They’ve received a false impression of me that won’t be altered, so it’s best just to move on.
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